Change your life
In the midst of the people don't get lost among names create your identity. Until you do not know who you are you can not gain strong self-confidence. When someone asks you 'who are you ?'. The common answer which we get is daughter/son of someone, her husband or his wife, father/mother of someone. Most of the times our introduction is done and depends on someone else. We see ourselves with the eyes of society. If our introduction is given by other people then how can our thoughts be ours as you are being introduced by different people for their specific reasons. If the thoughts are not our then how can we have strong self confidence. We do not need to stand upon everyone's word.
For self confidence we first have to ask ourself who we are? At first our mind will say that very thing that we say to others. After leaving the identity which the society has given us, further when we think our mind will say us "I am that who will change the world, will reach the mountain peak, will break records" etc. Therefore our mind always creates our identity from our will. Our will becomes our definition of life. Yet a will or aspire is that which is never satisfied and even keeps on changing. If our introduction is our will or aspiration then our introduction will always be incomplete and changing isn't it true? Then how can you get your introduction. Our introduction is neither what society gives us nor what our will gives us. After thinking deeply our mind replies to us that we are fearless, ambitious, hardworking, happy, sad, free or captive. Our true introductions are you feelings from our heart as all our decisions, work, success and failure are because of the decision from our feelings. When we gain our true introduction we can decide wisely what we have to gain and what to lose. After it to do any work we can stand with self-confidence. When we get true self-introduction only then true self-confidence takes birth and self-confidence is the key of life.
"If you want to fly give up everything that weighs you down." - Buddha
Always try to learn and advance in life. Never try to be superior instead work hard and be excellent. What is the meaning of superiority? It means to achieve more than others, its value doesn't lie in what you achieved rather its concentrates on by how much is our achievement more than other's achievement. Therefore the feeling of superiority even makes acquiring knowledge as a competition and when is a competition ended for acquiring achievements ? For some time one can be the 'best' but no one remains best forever then after some time dissatisfaction, pain, struggle takes birth. If we try to be excellent instead of best, then what will happen. Excellent means to acquire all the amount which is suitable not with intention of acquiring more than others but to achieve to satisfy the soul. On the path of excellence there is no competition with others. The competition is only with yourself. Therefore the person who tries to be excellent gets to acquire all the knowledge with time, without effort he/she becomes best. Though the one who tries to be the 'best' becomes best or not but can never become excellent.
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