Understand your feelings better : We
all want to advance in life. Be it in any position, field or while doing self
assessment. All of us make some progress in life but not everyone creates
a history nor everyone's name is remembered for ever. It's only
a few, to master life one must master himself. Know yourself deeply and observe your emotions.
Ask questions to yourself :-
1) What is defeat ?
⇾ I have always believed in the impermanence of being defeated. Defeat is not permanent if the person wishes he can try again for victory. A person is only defeated when he accepts it in his mind. Many at times the people who admit defeat in their mind or the people have been depressed by their failure never know that when they left their hope, how much near were they to their success. Every defeat is a step of experience in the path of success. An experience which teaches us something new, tells us where we lacked, it takes us more near to success. So forget all the past defeats and try again but this time together. WE together can forge a history, establish new ways of thinking and even change what is precogitated by destiny.
2) What is fear ?
⇾ When it comes to fear we believe it always fine if we are feared from something or some moment. Anyone can give many reasons for their fear but to overcome it we need to go to its root. Fear means to imagine the trouble which can come in the coming period of time, but no one is the master of time. So no one else can cause harm to us but if our mind is full of fear it will surely harm us. In a problem a fearful mind makes an inappropriate decision and makes the problem more painful for us. Therefore fear works exactly opposite to the reason for why any person gives place to fear in them. Fear is only the imagination of the trouble, sadness which can come but it has no connection with reality. Even after knowing that fear is just an imagination is it difficult to overcome it and be fearless ?
3) What is the importance of a decision?
⇾ Every moment in life is a decision taking moment. In every stage of life we have to take decision of some other stage and the decision, always leaves its effect behind. The decisions which we make today creates happiness or sadness in future not just for us but also for our family and the coming generations. When a problem appears our mind becomes restless, gets filled with indecisiveness that moment of decision becomes a war and the mind becomes the battle place. Most of the decision which we take are not to finish the problem but to calm our mind. Can a mind which is experiencing a battle in it take an appropriate decision ?
In reality when one takes a decision in a calm and pleasant mind. They make a happy future for themselves but those who take decisions to calm their mind sow thorny plants for themselves in future.
Thank you for reading !!
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