Learn Basics of LIFE - 2

 Know yourself and your actions better : In order to improve ourselves and get control over our mind. One first must know more about themselves, start controlling your actions and thoughts. You can start it even with small things which effect your and someone's day. As we know " Even a small star shines in the dark." Similarly even your small actions for something good and peaceful makes a difference in you.

 

Ask questions to yourself :-

1) What is weakness ?

⇾ Every one is this world has some weakness. Some cannot run too fast , some cannot lift heavy things whereas some cannot memorize well and many more. No one in this world has all the abilities but most of the times we just concentrate on the weakness. We consider it to be a center point of our live and so we have feeling of dissatisfaction and sadness. We get weakness by birth or by believing our surroundings. Our mind makes these weaknesses as our limit but there are also people who win over their weaknesses by their practice and efforts but what is the difference in these people ? The simple answer to it is the person who does not get defeated easily and tries every other time after every unsuccessful attempt, wins over their weaknesses. Therefore we may have weakness by birth but limitations are created only within our mind not in reality.

2) Why is Self Confidence important in life ?

⇾ When a person does not feel that he is capable to withstand the  hardships of life. When he does not believe in his own power then he leaves the good qualities and adopts the bad qualities. The bad qualities survive only when we don't have self confidence in ourselves. It is self confidence which holds the goodness in us. What is self confidence ? When a person believes that the struggles make them weak and they lose confidence in them. At that time instead of  going beyond the struggles they try to run away from struggles but when they understand that these struggles makes them stronger. Then with every struggle their morale increases.

Therefore self confidence is nothing but a state of mind, it is a way to see life which is in our control. 

3) What is ego ?

⇾ Knowingly or unknowingly many people in this world make ego as their purpose of life. They spend their entire life on increasing their ego. An egoistic person demands respect from others. From every other mouth they want to hear their praise, greatness and wishes to hear about their strength from others. They therefore ask prove from others about their strength and greatness. They have no self confidence in themselves but they fear that they are weak and have no power in themselves. Ego is found in only those who have fear in themselves.

In reality isn't ego the other name of fear ? Fear is the prison of heart and ego is lock on the prison gate. For the persons who are tied with ego, love can never enter in them. Ego is an enemy which makes the person alone in this world, gives a taste of happiness but fills with sadness.

Thank you for reading !!